Sometimespeopleaddtowhattheysayevenwhentheydon’ttalk.Gesturesarethe“silentlanguage”ofeveryculture.Wepointafingerormoveanotherpartofthebodytoshowwhatwewanttosay.Itisimportanttoknowthebodylanguageofeverycountryorwemaybemisunderstood.
IntheUnitedStates,peoplegreeteachotherwithahandshakeinaformalintroduction.Thehandshakemustbefirm.Ifthehandshakeisweak,itisasignofweaknessorunfriendliness.Friendsmayplaceahandontheother'sarmorshoulder.Somepeople,usuallywomen,greetafriendwithahug(拥抱).
SpaceisimportanttoAmericans.Whentwopeopletalktoeachother,theyusuallystandabouttwoandahalffeetawayandatanangle,sotheyarenotfacingeachotherdirectly.Americansgetuncomfortablewhenapersonstandstooclose.Theywillmovebacktohavetheirspace.IfAmericanstouchanotherpersonbyaccident,theysay“Pardonme”or“Excuseme”.
Americansliketolookattheotherpersonintheeyeswhentheyaretalking.Ifyoudon'tdoso,itmeansyouarebored,hidingsomething,orarenotinterested.Butwhenyoustareatsomeone,itisnotpolite.
ForAmericans,thumbs-upmeansyes,verygood,orwelldone.Thumbs-downmeanstheopposite.Tocallawaiter,raiseonehandtoheadlevelorabove.Toshowyouwantthecheck,makeamovementwithyourhandsasifyouaresigningapieceofpaper.Itisallrighttopointatthingsbutnotatpeoplewiththehandandindexfinger(食指).Americansshaketheirindexfingeratchildrenwhentheyscoldthemandpatthemontheheadwhentheyadmirethem.
Learningaculture'sbodylanguageissometimesconfusing(使糊涂的).Ifyoudon'tknowwhattodo,thesafestthingtodoistosmile.
1.Fromthefirstparagraphwecanlearnthat________.
A.gesturesdon'tmeananythingwhiletalking |
B.gesturescanhelpustoexpressourselves |
C.wecanlearnalanguagewellwithoutbodylanguage |
D.onlyAmericanpeoplecanusegestures |