Withoutanydiscussing,thekeytohappiness,inmyopinion,isaharmoniousrelationshipwiththepeopleinourlives. 　　Itisthepeopleinourliveswhobringusthemosthappiness.Family,friendsandco-workers,whoarepartofourinnercircle,shareourexperiences,hopesanddreams,successesandfrustrations,joysandpains.Toooften,manyofusgetonthefasttrackoflifeandtakeeachotherforgranted.Asanewmillenniumapproach,morepeopledisregardtheirpassionandinterestsandchoosecareersbasedonjobsecurity,payandprofessionalpromotion.Asaresult,theyfindthemselvesisolatedandwithoutfriends.Lonelinessisacommontragedythatdestroyslives. 　　Actuallywewereoldenoughtoremembertheoldsaying"Moneydoesn’tbuyhappiness",yetwestriveforthematerialobjectsandpayahighprice.Theessenceofhappinessistheunconditionallylovewehaveforthepeopleinourlivesandtheirunconditionallyloveforus.Tolivelifeonlyforourselveswillbringusnothingbutsadnessandmisery. 　　Aself-centeredlifeisanunhappylife.Selfishnessisamajorblocktohappiness.Ourfeelingsofinsecurityandlowself-esteemcauseustobetakersratherthangivers.Ourselfishnessisoftenamaskforfear.Ifwedon’tthinktoomuchaboutourselves,wehavealotofworktodoinordertoenhanceourself-worth.Wemustliveforsomethinggreaterthanourselves.Tobehappy,wemustgetoutofourselves.Anunhappypersonmustturnoutward,notinward,tofindhappiness. 　　Itrulybelievethatthehappiestpeoplearethosewholovemanythings.Theylovechildren,familyandfriends.Theylovesunrisesandsunsets.Theylovelife.Theyhaveevenlearnedtolovepainanddespairratherthanviewingthemtheoppositeofhappiness.