Therewasastory,thestoryisthis:optimistsseeanopportunityineverydanger,whilepessimisticpersonallsawineachopportunitytothedanger.Thefatherwantstopairoftwinbrotherstomake"thedispositiontransformation",becauseofexcessivelyoptimistic,butanotherthenisexcessivelypessimistic.Oneday,heboughtmanylustersbrightnewtoysforthepessimisticchild,alsofeed-intheoptimisticchildbetweentopileupwiththehorsedunginthegarage.Theseconddayearlymorning,thefatherwitnessestothepessimisticchildischokingwithsobs,thenasked:"whydoesn'tplaythesetoys?""Playedhasbeenablebad."Thechildstillwassobbing.Thefathersighs,entersthegarage,discoveredactuallythatoptimisticchildjubilantlyispullingoutanyinthehorsedung."Tellsyou,daddy."Thechildridehighdeclaredtothefatherthat,"Ithoughtinthehorsedunghillcertainlyalsoishidingapony!" 　　Storytellsus:don'tbetoopessimisticaboutlifenottoooptimistic.Betweentheoptimismandthepessimist,itsdifferenceisveryinteresting:theoptimismsawtoisfriesinoilthecirclecake,thepessimistsawisthecirclecakeinthemiddleofthehole.Determinetheirpessimismandoptimismisalookatthepointofviewofthings.Don'talwaysstaringattheshadow,turnaround,youwillfacetothesunshine 　　曾经有一个故事，故事是这样的：乐观者在每次危难中都看到了机会，而悲观的人在每个机会中都看到了危难。父亲欲对一对孪生兄弟作“性格改造”，因为其中一个过分乐观，而另一个则过分悲观。一天，他买了许多色泽鲜艳的新玩具给悲观孩子，又把乐观孩子送进了一间堆满马粪的车房里。第二天清晨，父亲看到悲观孩子正泣不成声，便问：“为什么不玩那些玩具呢？”“玩了就会坏的。”孩子仍在哭泣。父亲叹了口气，走进车房，却发现那乐观孩子正兴高采烈地在马粪里掏着什么。“告诉你，爸爸。”那孩子得意扬扬地向父亲宣称，“我想马粪堆里一定还藏着一匹小马呢！”故事告诉我们：对生活不要太悲观也不要太乐观。乐观者与悲观者之间，其差别是很有趣的：乐观者看到的是油炸圈饼，悲观者看到的是圈饼中间的窟窿。决定他们悲观与乐观的只是一种看事情的角度。不要总盯着阴影，转身，你就会迎向阳光。