Once,mymotherandIreturnedfromhishome,sitbackthebus.Momsitinback,Isatclosefromthedooroftheseat,playmotheronthephonegame. 　　Ihadapositiveexcitedly,suddenlythecarstopped,upagrandpaandanoldwoman.However,thepersonofcarlot,hasnoseatleft,grandpaandgrandmahadtostandinplacenotfarfromme,carastarttheyshamblestoodinstability. 　　Carstopsagain,lampalsolit,cameupagainafewpeople,themorecrowded.Then,ayoungmanstoodupseparateotherstograndpasaid:"youoldpeopletotakethisseat,Iwill."Grandpaletgrannysat,grannyletgrandpasit,twopeopleTuiRang.Atthismoment,originallysittingnexttoaguygirlstandupandsay:"youChousittogether!"Twooldmansay"thanks"justtakesaseat. 　　Boyshavebeenstandingbesideme,Iheardhimmutteringcough.Afterafewstand,hedidn'tgetoff,throughthestreetlamp,Isawhimintothearmedpolicehospital.Atthismoment,grandpasay:"thisboymightbesick,butheismyseattotheus.It'saniceman!" 　　Iheardtheheartverysour,veryashamed,Iamayoungpioneers,whycannotoffertheirseatstooldpeople?Aftergetoff,Iputthismattersaidtohismother,motheralsopraisedtheladandsaidIshouldstudyagedrespectedandremindersofgoodpersonalcharacter. 　　Thatnight,Iremembereddadsaidtheancientswords:isasintostealapin,smallkindness.Meandon'tbecauseofbadlittledo,anddon'tbecauseofgoodsmallwon'tdo.Seatthingthoughsmall,butalsocanreflectaperson'smoralcultivation!Inthefuture,Iwanttothatelderbrotherstudy,startsfromtheminormatter,startsfromnow,howtodogood. 　　或 　　Howcanwelearnthingsmoreeffectively?Well,inmyopinion,thereareatleastthreewaystoachievethis:beconfident,beconcentrated,andadoptspecialtactics.Firstofall,confidenceisacriticalonebecausewithoutthatonecannotconqueranything,includinglearningofcourse.Secondly,focusingonwhatyou'redoingisthemostbasicrequirement.Finally,specialtacticscansignificantlyraisetheeffectivenessoflearning,andthere'revariouskindsofthemincludingtakingnotes,repeatingvocally,etc. 　　(是要帮助他人学习还是指广泛的帮助他人?) 　　Astohelpingothers,themostimportantthingonehastoalwayskeepinmindis:don'tthinkaboutbeingpaidback.Throughhelpingothers,theacquisitionofgenuinehappinessisalreadyapreciousandirreplaceablereward,sothere'snoneedtobeeagerforpay-backsfromthosebeinghelped,nottomentionthatoriginallyoneisNOTsupposedtothinkaboutthosethingswhenhe/shedecidestohelpothers.