Allparentshaveskyhighhopesfortheirchildren.Wewantthemtobeconfidentandcontent.Whatcanparentsdotohelptheirkidsgrowuptoleadhappylives?Expertsadvise:
1.Helpingthemfindtheirtalents.Inordertosucceed,childrenneedtofeelthey’regoodat
something.Soexposeyourchildrentoasmanyinterestsaspossible,thenletthemchoosethosetheylikebest.
2.Applaudingtheirachievements.Astudyfound thatstudentswhoseparentspaidattentionto
theirabilitieswerefarmorelikelytodowellinschool-andinlife-thanstudentswhoseparentsdidn’tshowsuchsupport.Socelebrateyourkids’achievements,nomatterhowsmalltheyare.
3.Praisingtheirefforts.Kidswon’talwayscomeoutontop.Still,theydeservekudos(赞誉)fortryingtheirbest.TenyearoldAprilCutler,forexample,hashadtroublewithmathsincesecondgrade.
"SheusuallygetsC’sonherreportcard,butlastyearshewasdeterminedtogetA’sandworkedhardatit," sayshermom.“Whenthefirstgradingperiodended,AprilwasdisappointedwhenshegotaB
minusinmath,"Lueillecontinues.“ButmyhusbandandItoldherwewereveryproudthatshe’d
improved.Thatinspiredhertotryevenharder.ShegotaBplusforthenextperiod!"
4.Lettingthemmakedecisionsandmistakes.Makinghis/herowndecisionsincreasesachild’s
senseofcontrolandbuildshis/herselfesteem (自尊心).Andallowingkidstomakewrongdecisions-so
longasdoingsowon’tharmthem-helpskidslearnfromtheirmistakes.
5.Encouraging themto solve their ownproblems.Astheygrow,childrenneedpracticein
communicating,standingupforthemselvesandcompromising.Oneofthebestplacestolearntheseskills
isathome.Sothenexttimeyourchildrunstoyoucomplainingthatherbrotherisblamingher,stepback
andletthemworkitout.
1.Whatisthepurposeofthepassage?
A.Toencourageparentstoadmiretheirkids.
B.