问题标题:
【Howdoyouthinkofcampuslove?】
问题描述:
Howdoyouthinkofcampuslove?
孙庭波回答:
Well,nowadaysfallinginloveincampusespeciallyinhighschoolisnolongersurprising,anditgraduallybecomesapopularphenomenon.YetIsupposethiskindofloveisimmatureanditwouldfadeoutsoon.That'sbecausenotonlyphisicallybutalsopsychologicallystudentsatthatageisnotmatureenoughtohandletheirrelationships.Actuallytheydon'tevenunderstandwhatislove.Theyjustfallinlovewithsomeoneimpusivelysothatwemaysee,forexample,DavidwaskissingMarytheotherdaybuttodaywalkingwithLindahandinhand.Love,that'ssomethingaboutacommittment,asincerefeelingfortheotherone.Therefore,thiskindof"fastfood"loveisdoomedtobeended.
Furthermore,whenconcentratingtheirmindonstudy,studentsareeasilytobedistractedbyhis/hersocalled"lover",turningtowastingtimeinsendingmessagesandsoon.
However,Ishouldadmitthattheremaybesuccessfulcases,yetthosearebasedonabilitytocontrollyourselfwell.
Toconclude,aslongasyoutruelyunderstandwhatlovemeansandhavesomeprinciplesabouthowtohandletherelationship,campuslovecouldbehelpful.Butifnot,nevertry,becausewehavenothingtolose..
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