first,define"good".doyouwantmetobegoodbywhosestandards?thesociety's?myparents'?theschool's?orbymyown? 　　it'snaturalforteenagerstorebelandtotesttheboundariesandtoexperiment.therefore,parents,schoolandthesocietyasawholeshouldbemoreunderstandingandcaringratherthanignoringtheteenager'sneed,bothemotionalandphysical. 　　inmyopinion,screw"studyhard".studywhathard,ifimayask?noteveryoneisgoingtoanengineeroramathematician.kidshavedifferenttalentsandabilities.theproblemwiththeexpectationsofthechinesesocietyisthatthereisasinglestandardbywhichkidsaremeasured,i.e.howtheystudyinschool. 　　inmybook,beingagoodteenageristoexperimentandexploretheboundariesoflifewithoutsteppingoutsidetheboundsoflaw.remember,agoodteenagerdoesnotmeanaboringteenager.thebestthingateenagercandofortheirparents,schoolandthesocietyistofindhisownwayandhisowntalentandabilities,sothattheycanbeasignificantcontributortosocietyaftertheteenageyears.