请帮我概括一下这段英语~大约100字左右,
Neighborvs.Neighbor
Thewomanintheapartmentupstairsplaysherpianoaftermidnight.
Thefamilyacrossthestreetnevercleansuptheiryard.Thegarbageblowsintoyouryard.
Theguynextdooralwaysparkshiscarinfrontofyourdriveway.
Havethingslikethiseverhappenedtoyou?Ifso,youmayaskyourself,“Whoarethesepeople?Whyaretheydoingthesethingstome?”
Thesedays,manypeopledon’tknowtheirneighbors.Sometimesweshareafriendlywaveorsayhello,butalotofpeopledon’tevenknowtheirneighbor’snames!Whenyoudon’tknowsomeone,it’seasytobuildupfrustrationandresentment.Youthink,“Maybetheyliketoannoyme,”or“Maybetheydoitdeliberately.”Believeitornot,yourneighborsprobablydon’tmeantoirritateyou.Often,theydon’tevenknowthatthey’regettingonyournerves.Sobeforeyoutakeextrememeasurestofixtheproblem,youshoulddiscussitwiththemfirst.
Whenyouapproachyouneighbors,youshouldtalktotheminafriendlymanner.Complimenttheirchildrenordosomethingelsetomakethemfeelgood.Thenexplainthesituation.Andifyoucanthinkofasimplesolution,suggestit.
Iftalkingdoesn’twork,askanotherpersontohelp.Thispersoncanlistentobothsidesofthestoryandhelpyouandyourneighborresolvethesituation.
Finally,sometimesit’sagoodidestoavoidtheproblem.Dependingontheissue,itmightbebesttojuststayoutofyourneighbor’sway.