Third-CultureKids
Didyougrowupinoneculture,yourparentscamefromanother,andyouarenowlivinginatotallydifferentcountry?Ifso,thenyouareathird-culturekid!
Theterm"third-culturekid"(orTCK)wascoinedinthe1960sbyDr.Ruth.ShefirstcameacrossthisphenomenonwhensheresearchedNorthAmericanchildrenlivinginIndia.Caughtbetweentwocultures,theyformtheirveryown.(36)___About90percentofthemhaveauniversitydegree,while40percentpursueapostgraduateordoctordegree.Theyusuallybenefitfromtheirinterculturalexperience,whichhelpsthemtogrowintosuccessfulacademicsandprofessionals.
(37)___Infactmanyhardshipsmayarisefromthisphenomenon.Athird-culturekidmaynotbeabletoadaptthemselvescompletelytotheirnewsurroundingsasexpected.Instead,theymayalwaysremainanoutsiderindifferenthostcultures.Max,forexample,experiencedthisfundamentalfeelingofstrangenessthroughouthislifeasathird-culturekid.(38)___Whilethiscanbeawaytocreateanetworkoffriendsallaroundtheworld,itcanbedifficultforathird-culturekidlikeMaxtomaintainclosefriendshipsandrelationships.
Forathird-culturekid,itisofteneasiertomovetoanewforeigncountrythantoreturntotheir"home"country.AfterlivinginAustraliaandSouthKoreaformanyyears,LouisfinallyreturnedtoTurkeyasateenager.Butshefeltoutofplacewhenshereturnedtothecountrywhereshewasborn.
(39)___Shedidnotsharethesamevaluesasherfriends'evenyearsaftergoingbackhome.
Whileathird-culturekidmustletgooftheiridentityasforeignerwhenhe/shereturns,thehomecountrycanprovetobemoreforeignthananythinghe/shecameacrossbefore.Thepeergrouptheyfacedoesnotmatchtheidealizedimagechildrenhaveof"home".(40)___ Asapartofthegrowing"culture",TCKsmayfinditagreatchallengeforthemtofeelathomeinmanyplaces.