Aroundtheeavessparrowneverflyinthesky,aroundthekneechildwillneverrunaway,relyingonothersfornationwillneverstandamongthenationsintheworld."Self-reliance"istherequirementofthetimesofthenation,especiallywhenweareyoung,ifeverybodycanself-reliance,socountriesandpeopleshavehope. 　　Wemustlearnself-reliance,tolearnself-reliancefortheirownfuturewillhelp.Somepeopleareaccustomedto"liveonthelabourofothers"life,unwillingtorelyonourowneffortstoself-reliance,thisdependencyfortheirowndevelopment,isveryharmful.Becauseitwillnotonlymakepeoplelackofsenseofresponsibility,causedbythedefectsofpersonality,justwanttoreapwithoutsowing,covetenjoyment,itcannotadapttothesociallife,andevenendangerthesocietyandotherpeople,walkonthepathofcrime,sotolearnself-relianceforusisveryimportant. 　　Self-relianceisdoingtheirownthing.Thefamilyisourcradle,theschoolisourgrowinggreenhouse,however,wecannotliveforeverasearlyasthecradleandthegreenhouse,willenterintothesociety,aftertherain,seetheworld.Self-relianceasaprocessofgrowingup,ourlifeisexercisecapacity,wealsodevelopprocessofgoodmoralcharacter,wemustconstantlyimprovethemselves,learntoself-esteem,self-confidence,andenhanceawarenessofthelaw;graduallylearntounderstandandrespectothers,begoodatcommunicationandinteractionwithothers,harmoniousintegrationintosociety,caringsociety,contributingtosociety,becomearesponsibleforthemselves,responsibletoothers,tobeself-reliantpeopleresponsibleforthesociety. 　　Wecannotalwaysrelyonparents,onedaywewillleavetheirparents,ifwedonotnow,withthehelpoftheirparents,toreserveknowledgeexerciseself-reliance,self-reliance,developself-reliance,self-reliance,hardinthefuturesocietyso,lifeneedself-reliance. 　　Inoursociallife,tohelpeachother,dependoneachother,self-relianceisnotrefusetohelp,relyonisnottorelyon,toliveindependently,todotheirownthings,wefaceallkindsofthingsinlife,onlyaclearunderstandingoftheirresponsibilities,thecouragetoassumetheirresponsibilities,canbecomearealpersonself-reliance.Wealsoshouldcultivatetheirownself-reliance,themostbasicistobasetheircurrentlife,learningproblems,fromthelittlethings,tocultivateself-reliance,toboldlytoparticipateinsocialpractice,practicerepeatedly,inthesociallifepractice,tograduallyimprovetheirownability,soweneedtodevelopself-reliancetheirabilityto.Wehavetosaygoodbyetorelyon,toself-reliance. 　　绕檐家雀永远飞不上蓝天,绕膝孩儿永远不会奔向远方,依靠别人的民族永远不会自立于世界民族之林.“自立”是时代民族的需要,尤其是我们青少年,如果人人都能自立自强,那么国家和民族都有希望. 　　我们都要学会自立,学会自立对自己的将来都会有帮助.有些人习惯于“衣来伸手,饭来张口”的生活,不愿依靠自己的努力走向自立,这种依赖思想对于自己的发展,是非常有害的.因为它不仅会使人缺乏生活的责任感,造成人格的缺陷,只想不劳而获,贪图享受,就不能适应社会生活,甚至危害社会和他人,走上违法犯罪的道路,所以学会自立对我们来说非常的重要. 　　自立就是自己的事情自己干.家庭是我们成长的摇篮,学校是我们成长的温室,但是,我们不可能永远生活早摇篮和温室中,终究要走进社会,经风雨,见世面.自立作为成长的过程,是我们生活能力的锻炼过程,也是我们养成良好道德品质的过程,我们要不断地完善自己,学会自尊,增强自信,提高法律意识；逐步学会理解和尊重他人,善于与他人沟通和交往,和谐融入社会,关爱社会,奉献社会,成为一个对自己负责,对他人负责,对社会负责的能够自立自强的人. 　　我们永远都不能依赖父母,总有一天我们也会离开父母的,如果我们不能从现在起,在父母的帮助下,自觉地储备自立的知识,锻炼自立的能力,培养自立的精神,就难以在未来的社会中自立,所以说,人生需要自立. 　　我们在社会生活中,需要相互帮助,相互依靠,自立不是拒绝帮助,依靠不是依赖,要独立生活,就要做到自己的事情自己负责,我们面