英语翻译

Twostudentsstartedquarrelingatschool．Onestudentshouteddirtywordsattheotherandafightbegan．

Whatcanbedonetostopfightslikethisatschool?Insomeschools,thedisputants(争执者)sitdownwithpeermediators．Peermediatorsarestudentswithspecialtraininginthiskindofproblems．

Peermediatorshelpthedisputantstotalkinafriendlyway．Herearesomeofthewaystheyuse：

1．Putwhatyouthinkclearly,butdon’tsayanythingtohurttheother．Beginwith“Ifeel…”insteadof“Youalways."

2．Listencarefullytowhattheotherpersonissaying．Don'tstoptheotherperson'swords．

3．Keeplookingattheotherperson'seyeswhenheorshetalks．

4．Trytoseetheotherperson'ssideoftheproblem．

5．Neverputanyonedown．Sayingthingslike“Youarefoolish”makesthetalkdifficult．

6．Trytofindaresultthatmakesbothpeoplehappy．

PeermediatorsneverdecidetheresultorthewinnerTheydon'tdecidewhoisrightandwhoiswrong．Instead．theyhelpthetwostudentstheirown“win-win”result．A“win-win"resultcanmakeeveryonefeelgood．

Peermediators’workisoftensuccessfuljustbecauseitgetspeopletotalktoeachother．Andgettingpeopletotalktoeachotheristhefirststepinfindinga“win-win”result．