Somanyofusexpecteverythingwedotobesuccessful．Welookforwardtosuccesstoshowusourvalueortobethetopofthegroupwhereverweare．Howmanytimesinourschoolingdidwehopeforahighmark？Wewantitandthenfeellikeafailurewhenwedon'tachievewhatwewant．Evenwhenwesucceedwestillpassthatandgoontothenextsuccessandthenthenext．Wearenotoftentaughthowtofacefailures．

Forme，failuretaughtmemorethansuccessdid．Successisofthemomentandtemporary（暂时的）butfailuremeanswehaveeverdone．Itmakesmestopandthink．Itopenedmyeyesandbraintodifferentpossibilities．Failureisjustachoiceinredoingnotingivingup．Experiencingfailure，Ilookeddeeperandfurther．

Ihaveagrandsonwhoplayshockey（曲棍球） andasallplayersdo，hewentthroughaslump．SoIsawhewasunhappywithhimself．ThenIsaidtohim，"Whydon'tyouthinkofitdifferentlyratherthanbeingunhappy？"AndIasked，"Scoringisyourgoal，right？"Heanswered，"Ofcourse．""Whyaren'tyouscoringnow？Doyouneedareadjustment（重新调整）？"Allofasuddenhecalmeddown--hewasthinkingofwhatIhadjustsaid．SointhenextgameIsawhimtryingdifferentthingstodobetter．Laterhestartedscoring．Nowwhensomethingiswrong，hetakesthetimetothinkitoverratherthanjustkeepingthe"failure"mode（方式）．

Lookatfailuredifferently．Failureiswhatgivesuspowertotryadifferentwayofdoingthings．

Itteachesustorethink，redo，andthensuccesswillcomeabout．Don'tgiveupbutlearntouseadifferentway．

56．Accordingtotheauthor，whenwesucceedwe___．

A．arequiteproud

B．areusuallywildwithjoy

C．usuallysetupahighergoal

D．usuallythinkofourfailureoverandover

57．Accordingtotheauthor，failure___．

A．isthethingthattroublespeople

B．isoftheshorttermortemporary

C．makesuslearnmorethansuccessdoes

D．canmakehimunhappyfromtimetotime

58．Whatdoestheunderlinedword"slump"inParagraph3mean？___

A．Courseofwinningthegame．

B．Chanceofbeingwell-known．

C．Situationwhereoneworkshard．

D．Timeoflosingheartorbei