TodayinChina,manyfamilieshaveonlyonechild.Sothechildrenusuallydoteduponbyallfamilymembers.Graduallysomeofthemgetusedtodependingontheirparentsandlacktheabilitytosolveproblemsindependently. 　　Therearesomewaystohelpchildrentobeindependent.Firstly,thechildshouldhaveachancetoseetheworldaroundhim.Hemustunderstandthatthererevariouscompetitionsinthisworld,andeveryonecanfindhisrightpositioninthesocietyonlybyindividualefforts.Secondly,theparentsshouldgivethechildenoughhelptomakehimfeelcomfortable.Itsimpossibletoaskachildnottodependonparentsatonce.Achildneedshelpfromthebeginning.Withoutanyhelp,thechildmaylosehisfaith.Thirdly,parentsshouldlethischildmakedecisions,whichcantemperhisabilitytodealwithproblems.Achildshouldbepraisedwhenheissuccessfulorwhenhefails. 　　Tobeindependentisgoodforthechildren,becausenoparentscanaccompanythechildrenforthewholelife.Itisthechildhimselfwhoisresponsibleforherownfate.Onlyanindependentpersoncanliveandsucceedinthisworld.