Allofuswanttobesuccessful.Allofushavebigdreams.Wealltryveryhardtoachievethem.Butonourwaytoachievingthosedreams,ifwefaceafailure,wejustbreakdowntotally.Sometimeswedon'tevenfeelliketryingthesamejobagainjustbecauseofthefailurewefacedinthepreviousattempt.Andifwegetupandstartdoingit,wearenotabletoputour100%init.Consciouslyorunconsciously,thefearoffailureaffectsourperformance.Studentsputsomucheffortinstudyingforexams,andiftheyendupgettingaBorC,thentheyhardlylookforwardtonextsemester.Ifwestopdoingeverythingjustbecauseofthefearoffailing,thentheworldwillcometoanend.Then,whatexactlyshouldwedotoovercomeit?Let'stakesomemomentsandseeifweareabletoconquerthefailureoriffailurewouldbeabletoconquerus! 　　Changingpointofview-->>Firstofall,wehavetostoplookingatfailureinanegativeway.Peopletendtolinkfailurewithweakness,stupidity,anddumbness.Itotallydisagreewiththat.Ibelieveifyouaredoingsomething,andyouthinkyouarejustperfectinit,thatmeanssomethingseriouslyisgoingwrongwithit.Whenapersonthinksheisperfect,hehasclosedalldoorsforanygrowthorimprovement.Wheneverthereisimperfection,therearemillionchancesofimprovement.Apersonkeepsongrowing,butasocalled'perfectperson'juststopsgrowing.Heisinthisillusionofbeingperfectwhichhindershisgrowthforever.Lookatfailureasanothersteptowardsuccess.Makeyourselfpositiveenoughtoseethegoodsidesoffailure. 　　Don'tlabelyourselfa'failure'-->>Ifyoufailinsomething,don'tthinkofyourselfasafailure.Itjustmeansthatyouhaven'tsucceededindoingtheworkyouweredoing.Itmeansthatyouareonlysomestepsawayfromachievingyourgoal.Bylabelingyourselfasafailureyouclosethedoorforallpossibilitiesofachievingsuccess.Letmeexplainthiswithabeautifulexample.Therewasamanwhofailedinbusinessattheageof21;wasdefeatedinalegislativeraceattheageof22;failedagaininbusinessat24;overcomethedeathofhisgirlfriendat26;hadanervousbreakdownat27;lostacongressionalraceatageof34;lostasenatorialraceatage45;failedtobecomeVicePresidentattheage47;lostasenatorialraceat49;andwaselectedasthePresidentoftheUnitedStatesattheageof52!HewasnoneotherthanAbrahamLincoln.Hecouldhavelabeledhimselfafailureandruinhiswholelife.Instead,hedecidedtoignorefailureandfightagainstallodds. 　　Don'tbehavelikeamachine-->>Alwaysrememberthatonlyhighlyintelligentpeoplefacebigfailures.Theyaretheoneswhocannotgetthingsdoneinarightmannerinfirstattempt.Thereasonforthisisverysimple.Apersonwhofollowsordersandfulfillsthemrightaway,withoutthinking,islikeamachine.Thereisnodifferencebetweenthatpersonandamachine.Youtellhimsomethingandhewilldoit.However,asuccessfulpersonisverydifferent.Ifyoutellhimtodosomethinginacertainway,hewillaskyouwhyhecan'tdoitinotherway.Hewillnotfollowyourorderblindly.Healwayssay,"Whynottheotherway?"Healwaysthinksdifferentfromcrowdandthat'swherehesucceeds.

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